Meant to Be: I Was Abandoned as a Child and the Universe Made Me Remember It for a Reason

How to get what you truly want—by letting go of what you think you need.

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Synchronicities.

It can be a confusing term.

But in reality, it is very simple:

Once you engage with a feeling the universe will create synchronicities for you.

They are simply small or big signs that appear in your life.

And they appear for you.

They are like private messages from god—encoded in a language that you have unlearned to read.

In computer science, there is the concept of encoding. It can be understood easily:

You can not read this:

U3luY2hyb25pY2l0aWVzIGFyZSBzaW1wbHkgc21hbGwgb3IgYmlnIHNpZ25zIHRoYXQgYXBwZWFyIGluIHlvdXIgbGlmZS4=

Because it is encoded in base64 (an encoding mechanism).

But when you open the terminal on your Mac and enter

echo "U3luY2hyb25pY2l0aWVzIGFyZSBzaW1wbHkgc21hbGwgb3IgYmlnIHNpZ25zIHRoYXQgYXBwZWFyIGluIHlvdXIgbGlmZS4=" | base64 --decode

all in one line a message will appear in human readable language.

This is also how the universe communicates for some reason.

It sends you messages encoded in a godly language. They only appear to us as symbols. We can not directly read them. We have to decode them first.

In our mind exists a tool that can decode these symbols. Just like on your computer exists a tool that can decode base64 code.

Let me give you an example:

How being rejected by my wife helped me see what matters

Recently I imagined I would need more sexual experiences in my life to be happy.

It turned out to be an illusion that is why I write “imagined”.

Anyway, at that moment I believed it, so it felt true.

I advanced with these desires towards my wife several times—and got rejected a lot.

As you may know: When we are attached to an idea that we need something, being rejected can create emotional pain that can be measured in the brain just like physical pain.

I was not ready to just live with the pain. I wanted to make sure that this pain has a reason and that it is happening for me. So I went through my Emotional Mastery Blueprint process to understand what is happening and to resolve it.

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Step 2 of the process is “Engage”. It is the step where we take a closer look at the feeling we have and allow it to “speak” to us.

When we do this we tune in on the right frequency to be able to receive the messages of the universe.

In my case a childhood memory resurfaced.

As you likely have experienced this too—you know, that it can be an overwhelming experience.

But it must not be.

We have to shift our viewpoint so that we can see that this memory is coming—not to hurt us—but to help us.

This is how we can then speak with it, recognize it as a blessing—and then ultimately decode its message.

The memory that resurfaced was this:

I was about 11 years old. For some time, my uncle had lived with us. I do not remember why.

My uncle and I had shared a room.

I was away with the school for a week at some kind of camp. While I was there my uncle made me promises of what kind of presents he would have for me on my return. I think it was some fancy LEGOs.

When I returned. He was not there. And neither were any presents.

There was some kind of fight between my mother and my uncle. My uncle had betrayed her over money, I believe, and he had simply left. Not even leaving a message.

For me, this hit hard. It was like a father figure dying.

I do remember how emotional this was. I felt so betrayed.

Probably no one around was able to help me through these emotions—so I did what we all do: I stuffed them away.

Now they resurface while I take my time to feel the pain of rejection from my wife.

Why does this matter?

Because inside the resurfacing of this memory lies an encoded message.

Through going through the Emotional Mastery Blueprint process I was able to decode it.

I ran

echo “scrambled emotion childhood memory pain complex thing” | universecode --decode

in my head. And I got:

You don’t need what you think you need. You feel this pain because you have been abondened as a child. But now I let you remember it — so that you can let go. Let go and I will make you happy and send you my power.

Synchronicities come in many forms

Synchronicities not only come in the form of childhood memories. They come in all kinds of forms.

Unexpected opportunities. People calling you and offering you help that you would never have expected. They come in endless forms.

The crucial part is being able to receive them. And being able to decode them.

This is what we can use our minds for.

We have to practice seeing opportunities.

So the next time something “happens to you”: Ask: Could it be that this is happening for me and that there is an opportunity in this for me?

Simply allowing that perspective to be an option can shift our energy so significantly that we see things we could have impossibly seen otherwise.

It would have been so easy to drown in the pain that I felt. But I chose not to. Will you?

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